Well, that’s November at an end, and it’s time to think about the impact of #NothingNewNovember.
I suppose the main question that I want to ask myself is: Did this curb my consumption?
In short, yes.
The longer answer? Not really – I’ve been priorising used goods for myself for a very long time. Had this challenge not come at Chrismas, I might not have noticed the difference. That said, it did come in the run-up to Christmas and I suppose that’s the point.
The challenge forced me to consider a lot of things I hadn’t really thought about before in regards to my gift-purchasing habits. It’s so very easy to ‘justify’ brand new objects if they’re for other people, despite the fact that I really appreciate it when people give me used/homemade presents. Not having the option to instantly purchase brand new gifts resulted in me putting more thought into what I was giving.
In the past, I’ve been worried about gifting second-hand items because I feel ‘cheap’ for the tiny price tag, but this challenge forced me to get past that and assess the difference between the value and worth of an item. It’s something I’ve touched on before on other platforms, but in short I’ve been guilty of assuming that for something to be giftable, it needs to be expensive. Of course, that isn’t true – the cost of a gift isn’t an indicator as to the usefulness of it, or the worth it will have to the recipient. So – for example – even though the tiny Christmas stocking I knitted for my friend’s tree cost nothing (in terms of materials – it took around an hour of time), it will be treasured. I made it to honour the weeks we spent getting to know one another as I taught her to knit socks.
Another point of interest came as I set about making gifts. Again, I’ve often justified the purchase of new materials because the thing I was making was a present. But although the working conditions in my house are significantly better than those in a lot of garment factories, brand new raw materials are still brand new materials, regardless of who is using them.
I don’t actually have a huge stash of craft supplies, but it transpires that what I do have is ample for the gifts I’ve made. I think, going forward, that I will put a ban on new yarn purchases until I’m down to around 50% of what I currently have. The same applies to my fabric, though I haven’t been brave enough to sew any gifts yet…
So, did I buy anything new in Novemeber? Yes, two things, but I’m fine with both purchases.
- A book, intended for my husband. I initially tried to get this from the library but there is a long waiting list for it so although I could write him an IOU, I wanted to make sure the children had something to hand over. I then tried to find a copy second-hand but the only ones were coming from America. At the end of the day, I decided to support my local bookshop and bought it there. I could technically have waited until it was December to buy it, but as I’d planned to make the purchase for over three months, I thought that was just lip-service to the challenge… Regardless, one paperback book was purchased. It could be argued that I should have chosen a different title, but this one was just too perfect – the other titles I plan to equip him with will come from the library.
- One ball of sock yarn. I was lucky enough to visit friends of mine in the middle of the month. One of these friends had a birthday at the start of November, so I waited until we were together, got her to choose the colour of yarn she wanted, and knitted her gift whilst in her company. This ensured that the gift was one which would match her current wardrobe and fit correctly. It was a planned purchase and a considered one, so I don’t feel in the least bit bad about it. I have half a ball left and will use this in future projects – likely sets of baby socks for impending bumps amongst other friends.
Did I feel deprived, saying ‘no’ to purchases whilst out and about? Not at all. Rather than trawling through online shops for ‘perfect’ presents, I took stock of what I already have in the house. Along the way, I rediscovered my violin, dug out my recorders and started to teach my eldest to play. And what an honour that is.
So obviously, there are limits to buying used items – sometimes used things are actually more expensive (out-of-print books, for example), sometimes geography dictates that certain items are more desired than others (i.e. wellies are impossible to buy used in our muddly shire), and sometimes you just want to buy the item new (underwear, anyone?).
Did you take the #NothingNewNovember challenge? I would love to hear how you got on!